Its a feat in itself and having the right state of mind can largely influence that, but when it comes to our relationships why do we feel the need to perform these fantastic magic tricks to be sane?
or even be happy?
how can we try to change someone when its so hard to change ourselves?
Men are usually predisposed to not changing (its probably in their genes!!)
but as women we tend to take on this superwoman persona, we will make him call back, we will make him stop spending so much time with his friends, we will make him remember important dates, we will help him find a job, we will help him get his car fixed, we will make this man who we want him to be.
i believe a man is gonna be who he is and no amount of love and support you give him will actually work. we spend too much time trying to create the perfect man but we tend to neglect our own needs and lose ourselves when our "project"
just wont cooperate.
ladies please remember that what we look for in other people we have to look for in ourselves and stop killing yourself trying to make the impossible possible!
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