When he loves her......every woman knows what this feels like and its soo very hard to comprehend. i had a similar situation where he spent time with me and made me feel like i was the only one he truly cared for but at the end he loved he loved her not me. We as women go through this phase of dillusion that some way some how shes gonna screw up and he'll be back seeing that we were the better choice, which almost never happens. So what do we do? the five phases of trauma- denial: (no matter what people tell us we wont believe it )
anger:( how can he do this to me and with her?)
bargaining: (some of us even resort to crying and willing to accept hes with someone else,even having trysts with this man in hopes to get him back)
depression:( when all else fails we blame ourselves thinking what we did wrong and not seeing a way to fix it)
acceptance:( even though we k now that he does love someone else most of us like me accept and move on, not all of us and do this there goes denial rearing its ugly head)
its not easy ladies i know but when he loves someone else dont bother you cannot control where his heart is but you can control who deserves yours.
I can definitely relate to this one. Nice pic - thanks for sharing :-)
ReplyDeletethanks hon...i was supposed to post on it but i was running late and couldnt i just uploaded the pics to save time. enjoy! thanks for following!
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